You have seen her, you have met her, you like her and you really want to impress her. If this is what is going through your mind right now then you should continue reading...
While impressing a girl requires the guy to make an effort and woo her in person, more than half the battle is and can be won when talking to her over the phone. Yes, you can’t see her expressions and gauge her mood but you can sense the tone of her voice and continue the conversation in a way that pleases her.
1. Know when to call
You cannot call her randomly any time of the day. Nor can you call her twenty times in a day. What you must do, however, is know when you can call her. It could be in her lunch break, or when she is
travelling back home from work/school or at night. If you get the timing of the call right, then the conversation is bound to head in the right direction.
2. Know what to talk
We know that you will stick to talking sweet little nothings and that you will flirt on the phone. While you should do this, don’t ever get to talking about work and how it troubles you. She is not your agony aunt, she is the girl you want to impress. Also, show concern for what is happening in her life right now. Ask after her work and family, and then let her carry the conversation forward in the direction she pleases. Not to forget, talking about your ex is a strict NO-NO!
3. Show concern
Show concern for what is happening in her life right now. Ask after her work and family, and then let her carry the conversation forward in the direction she pleases.
4. Talk sweetly
You will be able to impress her if you talk softly and sweetly on the phone. Don’t be loud and don’t get aggressive. Let your true feelings for her engulf you and let the love do the talking!
5. Don’t lie!!!
The last thing you want to do is lie to her. If you fumble while talking, cook up stories, or sound unsure of what you are saying she will know something is wrong. If she begins to doubt your intentions, or mistrusts you, everything will do downhill from there on.
6. Be a good listener
The whole point of a phone call goes to waste if you don’t listen to what she has to say. So make it a point to listen to her attentively and give her your 100% attention.
7. Talk about common interests
She will go to sleep if you talk about stuff that does not interest her – like football, F1 or computers. Make it a point to talk about things that you both like and find interesting.
8. Sing!!! :)
This may sound a bit unusual, but you can definitely give it a try. If you have a fairly decent voice then you should sing to her over the phone. String a guitar along if possible. She will surely be impressed and flattered. If you want to impress a girl on the phone, then the best tip we can give you is to sound genuine. Don’t sound too cocky and fake. Keep it simple and keep it sweet. She will be able to hear the sweetness in your voice and she will start to develop feelings for you.
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by: Hilonee Furia
